Is it wrong that I get irritated when people pigeonhole me?
I know not everyone can know everything about another person, but it really bothers me when people assume I only have one facet of my personality and that's all they will talk about with me.
I know that shouldn't bother me so much, because some people may legitimately not know anything about me other than the fact that I like Doctor Who, or that I work at a church, or that I once auditioned for American Idol. For those people, it's ok, I guess. I can't expect more than that.
But people who have known me for any length of time and refuse to see me as anything other than the one thing they've pegged me as? Or that they designate me as "The Person Who Does This One Thing and That Is All I Care About." It bothers me.
I'm an effing, shiny diamond, y'all! I mean, sure, I'm a little chipped and dusty in places, but I can still sparkle if you look at me from a different angle! Grrrr.
This is why I'm extra grateful for the people who've taken time to get know me better over the years.
That was an weird little rant, wasn't it?